Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Children are Expensive

$200,000! That is what the projected cost of raising a child born in 2007 would be when that child reaches the age of 18. This is based on the "typical" middle income family. That number seems a bit low to me, but let's assume that it is correct. What could you do with an extra 200 grand? Imagine the possibilities: a new house, a traveling adventure, a better retirement. If you have multiple children then- imagine.

The truth, however, is that we as parents are making an investment. An investment in the future. Not only are we investing in the possibility of being grandparents, but really we are investing in the future of our world. Imagine the possibilities: what if your child is the one who grows up to find the cure for cancer? what if your child becomes president of the United States? what if your child is the school teacher who changes in a positive direction the lives of hundreds of children? what if yours is the child who saves lives of those in a burning building? what if yours is the child who finds a way to thwart starvation in our world? what if your child is the one who starts a non-profit that changes the future for millions of people? what if your child grows up, gets married, and is a great spouse and parent and impacts those in their nuclear family?what if your child takes the greatest news in the world, that Jesus loves them, to a place that has never heard before?

I guess $200,000 is a small price to pay for changing the world.

I also hope they remember this investment when they pick my nursing home.

2 comments:

rabble rouser said...

I think I've already spent that much on my granddaughter and she's not even here yet!

Stac said...

yeah, well you left out some of the expenses we've had with ours...but think INVESTMENT and be realistic that there will be dives and highs in the 'market of maturing' that will drive you crazy.
the real investment is TIME - keeping fridge rights open is not always easy (cause you can get hurt!) but always worth it in the end. for me - i'm blessed from being granted 'fridge rights' 'cause it makes me feel loved.